Copyright  Graceful -The winning  women 

Most times only  few people  get  everything they  wish  for in this  life.But it does not always  go like that.Sometimes  we may look at our situations  and feel that we are  worse off.We are only  worse off, when we  sit there,to moan about how we failed and look for people to moan with us.But we have  seen that , many people  are  not always with people  moaning over their  situations, because people have their own peculiar issues  to sort out.When  we look at the sprinters  on the sports tracks  ,we  will  see  the mindsets  of the  winners.Life is not about  how one is  able  to fail at everything, but  how  one is  able to overcome  every challenging moment.People do not actually  care ,if we tell them stories of how we failed or give them the reasons why we are failing.They only read in between the lines  and  see our inadequacies, but sometimes they moan with us and help us out of love.Being resilient  to  situations  can  be  a learnt  skill,  which  many  champions  are aware  of.Failing and sitting up and trying again,is the skill of most sportsmen, otherwise they  will give up, because they know that  ,everyday is not always  a winning day.Sometimes the sportsmen  might be weak,sick,tired,exhausted  and underperforming,  but most of them have that winning mindset of never to give up-  that is the reason  why they emerge as champions  at what they do.In this life  there  are many people out there to call people  not good enough , but these  champions  know that  for them to succeed  they have  to develop skills that will make them good enough.They have that hunger to succeed at what they do  and they  are there to leave  good legacies  for generations to come.There are many people  who for  some reasons  dwell on the negatives  and when you meet them,they always  have negative  attributions to give to others.No  singular human has the best of every  attributes  to  succeed  ,but  whatever  skills one has,  can  help them to become successful.Why is it that we  do see women,who  could  be attributed as being short in stature , by  those  giving attributes to others ,married to the most successful influential men on earth.Those women  most times  have developed that  self confidence that make them to believe  that they are beautiful inside themselves.They  work  at  developing  the inner beauty with qualities that  people  find  attractive  such as kindness,cheerfulness, hard work  and the ability to get along with others easily.It is these inner qualities  that  people  who love them  find attractive.These women became champions ,because  most times people might have called them names,  but they moved on, to marry the richest men on earth leaving people baffled,because of who they are inside of them not on the outside.They see themselves as  being beautiful  on the inside.Developing the mindset of a champion  means being the best version of oneself, harnessing  your gifts by building others,leaving ones inadequacies behind  ,acknowledging those that are better ,looking forward and learning from them.Popular stereotypes are not always right,because they are there to keep people down. Every champion is a learner aspiring to be better everyday.And  champions are listeners.Have you seen anyone failing at what they are doing?. Most times they do not listen to others.No one knows it all and it is better to learn from the experts  and the experienced  in every phase of ones life.Most champions are people , who do not listen to the voices of failure , because  most people who make people to fail  always point at the negatives about them  and the reasons  they  will  amount to nothing. and mysteriously  such people  work  underneath to get them to fail to buttress what they  have  told people about them.That  is the frailty of human nature. Most people are  born with the skills to  succeed  at what they are doing and get better by training.Have you  been  to  a work place to start  a job and someone told you to  do well or the next day  you will be out.Winners  take up those challenging moments,  with seriousness by learning from old workers .Those  who  got sacked after two days  ,can only go back home  and meet their  families to tell them  about  failing on the first  day at work,which  will not put food on their tables,buy them new  shoes  or pay their house rents.Winners  are resilient people,who face their  challenges  by not succumbing to laughter from others  but they train to get better.They do not look at people,who does not have time for pity stories.Winners  take the  days  of little  beginnings  as the  days of stepping  stones,learning curves  to get to bigger  places.That is the reason why we  see people  showing others that the house helps  are now the landlords, because those house helps have the positive mindsets of winners,that made them to aspire to  change  their stories.Most winners  are people who have faith,hope and patience.Many people  are not able to achieve early in life,  but they do achieve latter in life and this is where patience  comes in.Those without patience  do end it up,because of the  people they are listening to  and the way they handled situations.There  are people who listen to the stories of how people failed at work,how  many marriages ended in divorces,how people  could not get well after being sick  and how people  lost  out at everything.They mostly stick to the negative stories  and never  try to do anything.They give up  on their marriages during  trials and  they change spouses  every minute , hoping that they will meet an angel out there.There are few, because people have learnt  to be happy with where they are  build  on what they have  because dragging the clock backwards at each stages of ones life , is retrogression  and  always having to start all over again bring losses.The great sportsman  Roger Federer,  has this winning mindset  that is the reason why  he was not perturbed  when he was told that his children were not his own.The world was stunned at  what he did with that tempting moment , but but it was  his wife that announced that she  was divorcing him,is the  mindset of  a champion.Some tempting moments are there to destabilize  people and  make you to lose temper and everything  you have worked for and to  get you to start all over again.But a forgiving heart is the mindset of a winner.And you will always have people drumming support for people wishing to to start  all over again, of which  when you get older  ,you will realise that dragging the clock backwards  is not always the best option.It is  always good to move on.The winning  attitude in managing ones finances is to  save for the rainy days  because it is not every time that people will be ready to  listen to broke people.At such times you will realise that you came here alone .if you are not planning wisely you could get stuck in embarrassing situations, as no one will  be willing to listen to  you at all times.That is the reason why so many people go homeless.They do not save up,they spend up and hope that someone out there will help them out .And  sometimes they may learn that there is no one to always  bail them out.Being positive that one will overcome challenges,  is the winning attitude, that has made many to  go on with life,  where many have succumbed to the pressures  of life. Move on and move up.Do not give Up!!!.

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Cheer Up: Every dark moment  has an escape route

by Graceful media team

Saturday  01/11/2025  00.20 BMT 1min